I do not define it.

Its authority is not contingent on my comfort level with it.

Cultural norms don't shame it.

Just because I don't submit to it doesn't mean that it isn't there.

In 2018, its cool to be a chameleon - shift, change, morph - be who you want to be. 

Truth is not so.

God's light came into the world, but people loved the darkness more than the light, for their actions were evil. All who do evil hate the light and refuse to go near it for fear their sins will be exposed. (John 3:19b-20)

Don't fear truth, but don't attempt to draw boundaries around your darkness and call it light.

The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it. (John 1:5)